I’m honestly not 100% sure where I am with my gender identity at this point, nor do I have a transitioning timeline. I often feel more feminine than male, and I identify as “mostly female” – that’s about all I’ve got figured out. I don’t know if or when I intend to transition – this is a “big” thing and requires careful thought and consideration, that currently, I need to give to other areas of my life for the time being. My focus right now is a stable career (which is needed for insurance benefits anyway), my relationship, and having a decent social life.
But, to answer your question, she is aware of my gender identity, as well was changes in how I come to understand it, and she is supportive. I’m extremely open with her about how I’m feeling and what I think at any given time, and she is likewise with me. If that wasn’t the case, it wouldn’t be a healthy relationship.