By using Kinmunity, you agree to abide by the following guidelines at all times. By the way, these guidelines were last updated on 02/21/2019.
Use Proper English
- We request that members use proper English on Kinmunity. This includes making a best-effort attempt to spell properly and observe the rules of grammar. While we do not expect our users to have a degree in English literature, excessive "chat speak" is not permitted.
Keep it family friendly, please
- Except in designated areas, content submitted to Kinmunity should be appropriate for all audiences, including people as young as thirteen years old.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence
- Unless you have evidence to back them up, please refrain from making grandiose or outrageous claims on Kinmunity. This includes claiming to have the ability to physically shift, or claims of special “powers.“ Making such claims does nothing but harm your credibility in the community; nobody thinks you're special or cool by making them.
Treat others with respect
- Kinmunity takes privacy very seriously. It is forbidden for members to post personally identifying information about another person, even if that person is not a member of Kinmunity. Private messages are considered private conversations and they should never be posted publicly or shared with anyone other than a Kinmunity staff member without consent from both parties.
- Please be respectful to all cultures, beliefs, and ideas. It is perfectly okay for two people to have conflicting ideas, values, beliefs, and thoughts. It is not okay if one person tries to force their way of life on another.
Observe community etiquette
- Please try and keep discussions relevant to the topic at hand. Pay attention to which section of the site or thread you are in, and ensure your posts contribute to the topic that is being discussed. In other words, please stay on-topic.
- Utilize the search function before posting new content. Also, it's usually better to post in an existing thread than to start a new one.
- Please use the reaction system appropriately. It is intended to allow users to rate the quality of content. Do not solicit reactions in any way, or utilize the reaction system in games.
- Please format all content in a way that it is easy for others to read; avoid excessive colors or other distractions.
- Don't shout or post in all caps. Additionally, don't post use excessive exclamation points in content titles.
- Don't overuse emoticons, gifs, or images within posts.
- Don't upload huge attachments.
- Do not double post (post the same message twice in one thread) or cross post (place the same message across several forums).
- Don't make low effort posts. Instead of making posts like "thanks" and "me too", use our reactions system instead.
Be honest with others and yourself
- Honesty and integrity are highly valued on Kinmunity, Please be yourself and don't falsify any information about you. It is better to not provide information than it is to lie about it.
Listen to our staff team
- Please follow the direction of our staff members at all times. If a staff member requests that you do something, their request holds as much weight as these terms and rules do. If you feel a staff member is acting inappropriately, contact a member of the administration team.
- If another member violates these rules, please use the “report“ function to report the offending content or member. Do not try to handle the issue yourself, that's what our staff are here for.
Kinmunity's Bill Of Rights
- You have the right to be who you really are inside.
- You have the right to be respected for who you are.
- Nobody has the right to tell you who you are.
- You have the right to expect the same courtesy from others that you give to them.
- You have the right to ask for proof of extraordinary claims.
- You have the right to ask questions of others.
- You have the right to say "NO" to someone trying to exert power over you.
- You have the right to not participate in things which make you uncomfortable.
You have the right to be who you really are inside, whether that is a wolf, a dragon, an elf, a demon, a dog, or even a fish. It is no one else's business to say or to judge. Sometimes you really do have to look and act like a respectable adult human in order to be successful in real life. But you don't have to compromise on who you are inside even if you have to control how you look and act on the outside.
You have the right to be respected for who you are. No one else should be telling you what kind of being you really are if that does not feel right to you, or what your aura really looks like, or what religion you should believe if you don't want to. If someone tries to take power over you by telling you that they know more than you about who you are or what to believe, you can tell them no if you don't agree. It can feel good to have other people tell you things about your identity that you want to hear, but be aware that you don't have to agree with everything they say if it does not feel right to you. You are the sole owner of the real estate inside your own head.
You have the right to expect the same courtesy from others that you give to them. If you try to join a group that is disrespectful of you, or that wants you to bow and worship their authority, or that harasses and hazes newcomers, you can tell them no. You can find a community that is respectful to you and treats you the same as everyone else. No one else has the right to treat you like you are worth less than them, not even if they are bigger and older and more experienced than you.
You have the right to ask for proof of extraordinary claims. If someone says they can physically change into a wolf, or that green monkeys fly out of their butt, it is normal and reasonable to ask them to prove it. If they offer lots of excuses why they can not show you proof, you have the right to say you do not believe them and go find people to be with who do not feel the need to make up stories about how powerful and special they are. You may really want to believe that people can physically shift, but you need to think hard about whether you would believe a similarly extraordinary claim about something you aren't so emotionally invested in (like, “I own an elephant that can fly”), and what standards of proof would be reasonable to expect under those circumstances. Then apply those standards. Keeping an open mind is good, getting fooled by people who can't back up their grandiose claims is bad.
You have the right to ask questions. If someone gets mad because you questioned something they said, even in a polite way, or asked for proof of an extraordinary claim, you should consider whether they are being reasonable or mature. Being (alter/non)human or otherkin does not make you so special that you get a free pass to be a jerk to other people, nor does it mean you have to put up with other people being a jerk to you. The (alter/non)human or otherkin community is actually a pretty big place, so if you find yourself in a section of it where people are being jerks, you can look for other (alter/non)human or otherkin to hang out with who aren't jerks. You don't have to stay in a bad friendship, even if you have an important thing in common with them.
You have the right to say no if someone tries to exert power over you without your permission. No one is your “alpha” unless you want them to be, and you should think very carefully about the maturity level of people who want power over others, especially if they try to demand it or take advantage of it in creepy ways. You especially have the right to say no if someone tries to touch you when you don't want them to, or demands sex when you are not comfortable with that. Be very wary of any group or “pack” that uses power over people in an inappropriate way. You have the right to be respected, and you do NOT have to agree to be submissive to an “alpha” in order to have a close knit group of (alter/non)human or otherkin friends – a “pack” if you want to call it that - or an (alter/non)human or otherkin support community. Real wolves don't actually behave that way in the wild. Authority based packs are a very human thing, and not always a healthy thing.
You have the right not to be pressured to do things you don't want to do, especially if they are dangerous, harmful or illegal. Or even if they just make you feel uncomfortable. Real friends will not pressure you or force you if you say no, you don't feel okay doing something.
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Kinmunity is an online community primarily intended for individuals who identify under the umbrella of non-human or alterhuman, including: otherkin, therianthropes, vampires, fictionkin, the other-hearted and animal-hearted and plural systems to name a few. We aim to provide a safe-place for all individuals with such identities. We are NOT a gaming, roleplay, or fantasy website.
This document was last updated on 04/05/2019.
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